People told me when I was younger that I hadn't lived enough to write.
I kept going. The evidence eventually became undeniable — to me, anyway. The people who said it are mostly gone. Some of them were competition. Some were collaborators. Some were friends. The city takes people. The years take people. You outlive your era and the ones who understood you are no longer around to confirm you were ever real.
I'm not being dramatic. I'm reporting.
The tech people who encounter this site have a specific reaction. You can see it. Who the fuck is this guy? The resume doesn't parse. Shot Vogue. Wrote erotica that charted on Amazon. Built a TamperMonkey extension to extract images from Krea. Red-teamed Claude. Played a song at CBGBS. Bartended on an island in the middle of the Tiber. Had a comedy script passed around Hollywood that Universal loved and couldn't greenlight because it was uncastable. Gave free cannabis seeds to veterans in thirty countries.
No box for that. The category doesn't exist in tech. In New York it was just called a person who dedicated their life to the craft and kept showing up.
That's not rare among people who actually did it. It just looks rare from the outside because most people stopped at one thing.
Someone once said the three hardest things to make a person do are laugh, cry, and come.
I've done all three, in various rooms, various mediums, various decades. The comedy script that made Hollywood executives cry laughing and still didn't get made. The books that found readers who weren't supposed to exist for that genre. The photographs that made the subject feel seen in a way they didn't expect from a camera.